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QUOTE(Leo_11 @ Sep 9 2008, 11:00 PM)
3 and a half weeks til i'm back in Turkey with my love! counting the seconds........
hi leo_11! I'm also going back in october to gumbet. Maybe we can meet up? Are you staying in a hotel? It would be nice to have somebody in the same situation to talk to. is your boyfriend working in gumbet too? hope to hear from you xxx
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i'm arriving on saturday the 18th. i thought we would have more time. My bf worked before in central bar but not any more, thank god! i'm really happy he's out of that stupid place. maybe my bf will know yours or maybe i will too because i stayed there long time this year. the season is almost over so it will good to have a quiet holiday this time. x
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QUOTE(Ashley @ Aug 6 2007, 08:41 PM)
I got a turkish boyfriend but i read a lot of bad stories so i hope he is not a player
Hi, I understand what you mean. I also got a turkish boyfriend and I heard a lot of things about him. But he was realy nice and he said it was possible to stay togheter, but now, I'm back home, 2 days, and I haven't still heard him..
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hi garcia, is your bf also from gumbet? I completely understand how you feel! it's really hard to ignore all the gossip and stay true to your feelings, but i think in your heart you know if this is the real deal or not xxx
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I also totally understand, it is so difficult but 'in love' is right. You will know in time if it is true. That is the main point of my trip, to see how he really lives his life and to find truly if we think we can have a life together. There is a lot of gossip and rumours, but you have to remember all these are exaggerated because of the distance, your mind will start to make you wonder. Stick with it, I have, I was in a similar situation to you, and so far things are good.
I wish you luck. And I hope thigs work out for you.
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Ok guys I need help from you. I got bak yesterday and now know I will do anything I can to be with him. Don't know where to start.......he has no passport, so we are looking into that but thats the first hurdle. And I need advice on marrying him too......all help greatly appreciated! Hope you are all ok x
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I have been through the lot, moving to Turkey, marriage, visas, moving back to the UK etc. so anything you want to know just ask!
Are you planning on living in Turkey or England?
I got married in Turkey. All I needed before I went out was my Certificate of Non-Impediment, which you get from your local registry office. It costs about £30 and takes 3 weeks. You also need your full birth certificate.
Once you get there you need to go to the registry office wherever yuo are planning to get married and they will give you a list of everything you need to do (it is in Turkish so if you don't speak Turksih you will need your man to read it). You have to take all your paperwork to the British Consulate (we went to Izmir) and then they will give you some more paperwork to take to the governor's office for a stamp.
After that you need to get blood tests done at the local hospital then get a medical report.
Once you have got everything done and all the paperwork you can go back to the registry office and book a date for the marriage. Of course you can also have a big celebration wherever you want after.
Turkish passorts are very expensive but he can get one in Bodrum, I'm not sure where but I know my husband got his there.
If there is anything else I can help you with just ask x
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I habe a turkish man been togther a few months Burak karabay used to work in mystery i heard so many stories i just hope hes true ive falledn 4 him aaahhhhhh
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Just listen to your instincts Shamsa, if he is good he wont ask you for anything. If he starts asking for presents - mobile phones, trainers, money etc then run a mile!
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Sep 12 2008, 11:38 AM
i'm there for 2 weeks the two middle weeks, when are you going? x
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i thought we would have more time. My bf worked before in central bar but not any more, thank god! 
