I am also a Turkish man. I have read this from the newspaper. How unfortunate! I am sorry that they jerk you around. I felt very truly sorry for what they did to you, and I am ashamed. I am with you ladies. I support your cause. There are things that you should be aware of:
1) Never date man younger than you. No 20-30 yo man can love a 50-60 yo woman. Just not natural.
2) Simply say "no!" for monetary demands. It's not your job to lend them money.
3) Don't sleep with them prematurely. See if they can wait couple of days.
4) No bartenders, waiters, animators, and so forth... Be a lil' bit picky about the men you wish to spend some quality time with.
5)Look for equality in every field. Primarily financially and intellectually.
Those people are seasonal workers, and they aren't very well educated. They barely speak english, russian ,or german. Their love is also seasonal as their work. They all are coming from very poor regions of Turkey, mostly east and south-east. Most of them are not Turkish, but kurdish. They come from a whole another culture. They see women paying attention to them for the first time. You ladies dress and act differently. It's kinda interesting to them. After a while they get used to it, and they start acting cheeky. They know that sex is no taboo in Europe, and they exploit it. Pre-marital or non-marital is no biggie for European women. That's how they think.
I admit that even real Turkish men are a little bit flirty including myself. I don't see any harm on that though. It's all gonna be fine as soon as it's mutual. Be clear with your expectations. Don't let 'em fool you and don't fool them
I am a 23 yo college student, and I enjoy spending my time with foreign girls. They are fun, understanding and open-minded. I ask her out if I really like her. I don't necessarily have sex with them to enjoy their company. One step at a time! Try to save sex for the men you really trust.
I have never been to Southern Turkey, but I have been to USA and met bizillion girls from different nations. That's how I see it.
Smarten yourselves up ladies! Don't be a victim! And don't lump everbody into same basket