hi , i wonder if anyone out there can help me , and maybe this will warn other girls about this cheat . my partner went out to gumbet at the end of july with the children , she stayed at miraluna hotel in gumbet . while she was there she had here hair in a saloon either in the hotel or next to the hotel . the person who did her hair is called george [ he looks like george cloony apparently] , dony know what his real name is . He told her about bieing married to an english woman , having a child , then getting divorced and being deported from uk back to turkey ! she fell for all his charms and slept with him and had sex with him . does anybody recognise this man from what i have said , or know of him . this wanker has broken up our relationship and she is going out to see him again . somebody else has told me that he is a player and has sex for the fun of it , etc ,etc . he said he loves her , she has fallen head over heels for him ! i hope she has caught him with someone else while she is out there . he is supposed to be in his middle thirties. Please , does anybody know him , and can you tell me what he is like , and hopefully anybody else he has done this with or doing this with sees this and gets out before somebdy else gets hurt , like me .
thank you

I don't know the man you are talking about but I just wanted to say how sad I am that this has happened. Unfortunately it is easy to get carried away by all the charm and the holiday atmosphere. The chances are he does this all the time, he may even be after a ticket back to the UK. It is just a shame your girlfriend fell for it all, no doubt she will find out in time what he is like though.

Try to move on though, she obviously didn't think enough of you to keep away from this guy. No matter how charming he was if she had really loved you she would never have gone near him. Whatever he is like, whether he is a player or not, your girlfriend is the one you should be angry at. Trying to find out who he is isn't going to help you.

I hope your hurt eases soon.

Take care x

thank you for your comment, i am trying to move on but its hurts so much . dont know why i want to find out about him , just do , maybe it will ease the pain , maybe not , thanks

dave

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Hi Dave,
I just wanted to say to you it made me very sad to see ur post, and i wonder how the children must be feeling, this sort of thing happens all the time here in Turkey, so many lives are destroyed by these Players! they have no morals.
I can understand why you want to know who this guy is, because im sure you being so angre and far away you feel that you cant do anything! I have lived in Bodrum for many years and see so many things! I dont think i know who this guy is, but if i do come across him be sure i will let you know.
Its not often i see posts from ' The Husbands, Boyfriends ' but its got me thinking there must be so many like you in this same position.
I hope you can find pease of mind, and move on from this which ever route you decide to take.
Take care xx

I know exactly who you are talking about and yes he is a player.
He has a wife and kids, usually just even mentions them but says things like "you can be my wife for a week" or for how long the stay is. Someone you should stay away from if you have a relation, and never become serious with if you are single.

.. sad to hear what u are going through, take care xx

thank you for your comments about him . hope she has found out about him while she has been there last week , and i hope she is hurting like mad . like i am .!!

thanks for you comments and kind words molly . i am hurting like mad and hope that she finds out what he is really like while she has been out there again. i miss the kids so much to x x x

Take care Dave..
This must be heartbreaking.. Try to be strong, even if it's just for your kids..
I wish you all the best..

What I find very sad is that she is taking your children along with her. That she has cheated on you whilst on holiday is bad enough but that she is now dragging your children around to be with this man is outrageous

You can sure she will end up hurt if this man is as bad as Artemis says, especially if he is married, nothing good will come of it. I am just shocked at the way she is behaving towards you and particularly towards your children. Stay strong, she is just not worth the hurt and pain.

Take care x

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I have to agree with Adryath, dragging the children around with her is just unbeliveable! What does she expect is going to come from all this?? I feel so sorry for Dave and the kids, dont know how old they are, but surely they must wonder what the hells going on!!
And the next thing we will see is a post from this woman saying what rats Turkish men are!! How he cheated on her!! used her for Sex etc!!!! and then will be looking for sympathy from sites like this, but i bet she will forget to mention that she lied and cheated to her boyfriend!! back in uk? Not to mention dragging her kids around just so she can have a bit of giggy giggy with scum bag!!
Lets hope shes named and shamed?!

thanks for everyones comments . she came back from turkey , and have found out that 'george' has dissapeared ,. he no longer works at the hairdressers and nobody is sure where he has gone . suppose that answers my questions about him and what he is like and what he does . hope somebody else does not fall for his lies and gets hurt the way i have been . thanks again to everyone


dave

It's almost the end of the season and everything's closing down - he's most likely gone home to his wife and kids!! Sorry to hear about your troubles.