do you have a turkish boyfriend or girlfriend ? if you have can u tell us your experiences ? Any plans for future ?
we cant wait to hear

I got a turkish boyfriend but i read a lot of bad stories so i hope he is not a player

I have a Turkish husband, we have been togther for 5 years and have 2 daughters

I have a turkish boyfriend i have known him a year but have only been together 2 months going to see him on thursday as he is going army on the 27th august ....gonna miss him loads

aww well we all have to do military service , i also had to do it !! I know army is not best place to be but try to write him letters cose it feels great when you recieve a letter when you are in army

i have a turkish boyfriend. fiance should i say.. i love him soo much known him sinse last may ... going back on 5th september he is allso going in the army in novermber but for 5 month as he has being to uni . .bles him yeah i read alot of bad stories scares hell oita me but i think u can tell if tehre genuine or not it stands out a mile when there slimy gets haha dunt meen to sound harsh..

5 months is okay , my bf always tells me stories and he had to do 18 months

i couldnt cope with mine doing the full time noway . .omg i cnat even imagene it!!

HEY HUN.. WATS UP...I HAVE A TURKISH BOYFRIEND 2 HIS NAME IS LOUIS AND HE WORKS IN THE CORNER BARV IN GUMBET.. HE WAS MEN 2 GO THE ARMY THE 27 OF AUGUST 2 HA...WERS YOUR BOYFRIEND FROM.. MAY BE THE 2 OF THEM WILL GET 2 NOW EACH OTHER HA XxXx

New York, I think you are just trying to cause trouble aren't you? Please don't do it on this site, it is not a bitchy site, everyone is very friendly and we don't need trouble makers.

I just have to say new york.....please dont cause trouble my friend told me you had wrote on here and i just came on to have a look at what you wrote....i did not write his name for you to cause trouble and just so you no my yilmaz and your louis both from corner bar will not meet because yilmaz did not go army until last friday so opps looks like they will never meet.......and cheryl your lucky that your guy only has to do a couple of months but atleast when he gets out we caan spend the rest of our time together doing the things we have planned i cant wait yay

hi there i have a turkish husband bin together 6 years and we are very happy there not all bad

I have a turkish boyfriend and now and we are talking about our future together.

He was previously with an English girl for 3 years and engaged to her, early last year after him booking and paying for the venue, she stopped returning his calls, texts and emails. We didn't get together until a good 6 months after this. So far i have been out there 3 times this year, it has taken him ages to realise that i am not going to do that to him.

Yes there are bad ones but have you ever stopped to think why they are like that . . .

Hi there am fairly new to all this........

I have me a man in Gumbet, only fairly new but am going back in October.......He is amazing and makes me feel on top of the world, I am trying so hard not to read all the bad things about Turkish guys as I really don't think he is like this......maybe I am naive but he seems like a really genuine guy. Have had problems from my friends who think I am stupid...but I hope not! Any others there in a similar situation? Would love to hear about your (good!) experiences!!

Hi Leo,

I have a Turkish husband and we used to live in Gumbet, we've been together for 6 years, married for 5, so these things can work out. All I would say is keep your eyes open, always trust your instict and don't let emotion cloud your judgement. I have seen so many Turkish guys with English girls and I have to say that most of them don't last.

Obvioulsy there is no way of knowing if he is genuine yet but as long as he never asks for anthing; money, mobile phones, trainers etc., he doesn't expect you to pay for everything if you go out and he doesn't suddenly disappear and become uncontactable for a week or so then the signs are ok.

I wish you luck and hope things work out for you, I'm sure your frinds are only looking out for you so just tell them you are being careful and they should be fine.

If you want the details of a couple of good sites that may be of interest to you then PM me and I will give you details.

I have a turkish boyfriend we have been together just over a year now. I have just came back from seeing him, i went for 2 weeks. He has been in the army since the beginning of November last year and he spend some of his leave with me and then when i was going home, he went to spend some time with his family.

He has 7 months left to do in the army, we have started talking about the future, it was so hard leaving him it is the worsed feeling ever leaving someone you love. But only 7 months then we will be together again i cant wait i am counting the days.

It is the best feeling ever when i am with him.

And to Leo_11 i have friends that think i am crazy too, but like i say to them "you get bad guys in every country, even here in britain" but then i have friend that are like its your life.

Just be careful like 'Adryath' said, and just trust yourself to know if he is a good guy or not.

I hope it works out for you.

Sarah x

Thankyou so much guys, you have all made me feel a lot better! Like you say, just going at it with open eyes and not letting my heart lead the way. And.....only 2 months til I am back in Gumbet again!

Its so good to know I am not the only crazy girl out there. Starting to feel a bit of a loner at home, no one taking it seriously or anything. But yeah ur right, they are only caring about me, i know that.

Thankyou again guys! xx

hi everybody, nice to find a friendly site about gumbet for once i'm married with a turkish guy since last year and we really love each other but yeah, its sooo hard not to believe all the stories they tell you. he works in a bar in gumbet so that doesnt make it any easier on us. i truly hope my sweety will have his visa soon so we can be together after all the lonely months. its nice to see i'm not the only one who is in this situation, hope to find some support here. x

3 and a half weeks til i'm back in Turkey with my love! counting the seconds........