Hi there everyone,

Does anyone please know the greeter / bar man from Cozzy Bar? He is the tall one, his name begins with B? I really like him but don't know if I should trust him after reading all these stories on here!

Thanks,

Amy xx

Hi,

Yes unfortunatly I know exactly who you are talking about. His name is Bebeto or also known as Fetli..... he is very bad news... He is also not clean if u know what I mean. If u want to know more pm me......

I would also like to say definitely DON"T trust him.. Bebeto, Fetli... but neither of them are even his real names... It's Fadli.... And he is seriously bad news. I had a really bad experience last year.
No matter what he tells you its lies... he is married first of all, and second of all, is absolutely not the sort of person you want to be around - and believe me, i know, i spent months being played by this guy, eve staying in turkey for ages!
Please ladies, stay away.. the heartache is not worth it. He just doesnt care.. its just a game, and there is no respect!

Yes girls very bad news. I have seen him everynight with a different girl and Maria you are not the only one that has emailed me asking about him so what does that show. A girl emailed me saying he had asked her to visit him in Istanbul?

I didn't know he was married but can believe it. He seems to be a dangerous guy and has made threats against me! I go there a few times but stay well clear of him. He is in the bars with different girl everynight.... poor girls don't know what they are getting themselves into.

Beware girls

yes he asked me to visit him in Istanbul too! In fact, he is married with a older British woman for reasons of Visa of course, and hearing all of this i feel more stupid than ever!
Though i am sad to hear you have similar stories, i happy i am not the only one! He has also threatened me, and began harassing my friends through social network sites, and blackmail me with threats of exposing compromising pictures. It has been a nightmare, especially because i was hurting as well because i did care of him as i'm sure you did too! But the best answer is to just not care!

I think he must just live a really boring life and has to harass girls because he has nothing better to do. But i also thik that he has somekind of mental health problem, because, he, seems to be so threatening, and seems to blame everyone else apart from himself for mistakes! In fact in my opinion he has some signs of being homosexual, but that's another story!! haha.

The best solution is to absolutely ignore him, any contact encourages his crazyniss! I hope that many girls will read this, and stop contact with him, because he really is dangerous, and is not only talking with you, but another 100 at the same time on msn, facebook,! Please be warned!!!

Luckily It was a very short thing as found out pretty much straight away what he was like... I did not care for him at all really, just one of them things... he is very threatening and yes I would just stay well clear of him. Unfortunatley I like the place he works and know some of the ppl there and like to say hi, but i think i wont bother next time as not worth the hassell.

So funny to read that you think he maybe homosexual too....haha Thats exactly what I thought and still do. I think hes confused in his sexuality!!! Poor guy dont know what to do, he is the crazy one.

If you want to discuss detail you can PM me. I dont mind putting general things on here but would like to know how you got to the sexuality concluion, wonder if its the same as mine.....hahahaha

Whos laughing now - WE ARE!!!!!! lol

What a rat....I am so pleased my contact with him has stopped!
Think he is certainly someone to stay away from!
He did tell me that this season (2009) would be his last in Gumbet...so hopefully return visitors won't have to see him again.
But who knows!! He seems to be full of lies!

In response to 'Dooby,' This is another one of Bebeto's lies for sure... Every year he tells the girls he won't be back, yet he has been working there since he was 16, and returns every year to the same place as he has no other options!! I dont know why he likes to tell this lie, but anyway! Yes definitely stay clear from him! I'm glad that you can read this thread to see what he is realy like. Its funny really - MEN!!!!
xxx ;-)

Yes Maria is right he will be back there every year, he always says that. Stay away from this man as he is bad news!!!! That poor woman married to him, what was she thinking...... it seems that she has no clue. Hopefully she will read all this and come to her senses...... I go back in the summer and I bet I bump into him..... loser!!!

Come on girls!

What do you expect? All the girls and even the mothers want this guy! Because he is nice and polite and he just know exactly how to do and to talk, how to behave! Isn't that why we all like him in the first place?
About beïng gay, well maybe he likes both, but what's wrong with that. Only thing a recommend is whatever you do with him, do it save! But that's allways the best thing to do with some one you don't know very well.

I know him for many years now and the last six months i know him better. He is a good guy with a good hart. He is just a healty guy who loves sex and he can get as much as he want. Don't forget allso he is really Turkisch and maybe it seems not but beleave me; that's big difference in culture for real love.
But no, he is not in love with everyone he wants sex with. We all know how the game works; with nice words etc. we all like to belive that it is love, and that it is different this time. We are talking here about summerlove or holidaylove. He is not different in this than any ski teacher for example.
Willing to mail about this if anyone want to.

OK,

Maybe that is why girls may like him but hey I have to say he is not a nice guy.....

I know what the men are like there and understand the difference between a relationship and summer love but this guy is really bad....

A nice guy does not threaten you
A nice guy does not lie constantly
A nice guy does not cheat on their wife (married to an older british lady...hmmm wonder what he gains from that - apartment rent free maybe....)

He may come across nice and caring but thats all part of getting what he wants. I really hope I dont see him ever again. He lies so much and he needs to visit the clinic! he is disgusting.... and he is not even good looking....dont know what I was thinking, but will make sure i think in future I have to laugh about it as he is a joke.... I'm done with talking about him now... hes too boring... Goodnight

)))ahh ahhh selfısh girls...why u r all talkıng about me bad???whats reaso??coz i dıdınt sleep with you,or i even dıdınt care about u or i ignore u or i dıdınbt help any famıly in bodrum or i dıdınt save any tourıst ın bodrum???u r just talkıng and thats pity you dont know me well just i see you are selfısh..you dıdınt get me or i dıdınt give you what you want thats why you are all talkıng about me bad way...im not married can show u prove today if you need or ask cozzy beach...i will answer all your questıon face to face in bodrum... we give example in turkey cat want to liver,but when the cat get the liver for meal cat say liver perfect taste and wery good meal,but when cat doesınt get liver for eat say liver wery bad wery dirty....talkıng bad about it...
now i read all thıs message and i see girls doesınt get what they want thats why everwhere they r talkıng about me base way.why??coz i dıdınt sleep with them??pity realy....thank you agaın loves bebeto from cozzy beach

looser!

Hahaha selfish girls hmmmm. I thought this was quite a funny post from you Bebeto because I think you even believe this yourself when actually you know what you said is all lies. You wouldn't believe haw many ppl have pm'd me on you.... so is it all of us that have a problem or u

Unbeleaveble!! And non off these girls have the guts to tell him who they are and why they think this way! It is just clear what level you all are. If you take a good look at this story, you all know that you made the mistake by your self, By having wrong expectations......

Kasbah81 you write many bad thınks about me dont know why u wrote all these thınk to me bu maybe u r menopause:))or old or fat or ugly or have no respect ur self and dont know even who u r but for sure i dıdınt gıve u what u want thats why im bad person for u...i dont even care i be bodrum soon agaın hope we will meet somewhere...i will not write anymore here...kasbah81 u r borrılng and talk bullshit......respect people if u have no personality what can i do:))) stay away from me...my edvace to u:dont play with fire byee now

this idiot bebetobodrum is sending pm's:

angelica gray is that u???otherwise no body knows looser word..only u know ıt....tomorrow or saturday i will ask hote

im not angelica gray but i think evry woman should call this idiot a looser!
they are all the same,
when the truth about tham is comming above
they are starting with this stupit storys about woman

and thats why he is a looser, a very big looser!

stupid girls...your expectations are wrong that's the hole problem!!! Don't blame a normal guy for that. He just take what girls offer him if he wants too. Evrybody in his place would do the same, just normal and healthy. Only some off you can not handle that.
Please take a look in the mirror.....

a "normal" guy should treat a woman with respect and not as a toy
with lies and cheats

Believe me I had no expectations on taking things further infact I got more than I bargained for - clinic springs to mind!, dont want any relationship with this Bebeto so his friend has it all wrong. The reason why I am not saying who I am because he is very threatening, he has already made a threat on my PM so thats why. If he is clever he would know who I am!( unless there is too many) As for the fat, ugly, menopause hahahaha no where near.

I think the only one talking bullshit is you Bebeto and No i dont hope I see you again... Have a nice life and dont conact me anymore.

Well said Bodruma - like it! Women should be respected I agree this guy has no respect for girls. Not all of them are like that